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Marineman Newbie

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:D Do u find after marriage,ur lifestyle changes? anyting 2 share? :blink:

Of course marriage changes your lifestyle and comes in a few phases, some general comments

Phase 1

You will spend more time with your wife

You will have to sacrifice your full freedom to do what you want

You will spend more time with your in laws

You will spend less time with your friends

Your finances and spending will be monitored by your wife

You will have to tolerate some nagging on various matters like hygiene, odd behaviours of yours, bad habits etc

You have to report to her your whereabouts on a regular basis

You will be her chauffer

You will walk the shopping complexes more

Phase2

When you have kids

Your weekend starts at noon, the time of the day your baby is ready to go out

You will even have less time for your friends

You will also sacrifice your sparetime to look after the baby

You will spend more money on the baby

You will be more stressed at times

Most of your free time will be spend with the kids

You will even visit the shopping complexes more!

You will buy more groceries

Still spending time with in laws

Phase 3

Kids getting bigger

You will need a lot more money on the growing kids

You priority on designer clothes will take a step back

You worry about losing your job more now

Your sexual activity will be greatly reduced

You will be stressed out with the kids when they reach 12-18yrs

Your prority in life changes, more personal sacrifices for the kids, lucky them!

Phase 4

Kids grown up

You will be alone with your wife

start all over again on courting

looking forward to be grand parents

can be lonely at times when your kids have no time for you

don't know what to do with yourself, too much time

even less sexual activities now! haha ..."hold" up and not "stick" up!

worry about dying.........as you will be quite old now

I suppose that's the journey we will all go through in our lives.

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andysho Rookie

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I think nowdays in this modern world....

marriage is not 100 percent " both will live to the end of life"

anything can happen ... esp ppl just treat marriage lightly

happy " stay togther and have fun"

not happy " find a lawyer .. and sign on the dotted line , and lets become friends

again lor

A real case to share

I used to be a housing agent years back..

I brought one buyer to one of the owners house for a viewing session,

then happen that they were on the way of ending their marriage life

so after coming to a agreement price with the husband , the wife came back .. and

they started having a private discussion of 5 mins ...

After that a big arguement broke out between them concering about " you must give me more share

" i blur blur pay more for this house .. you should get less.....

I wonder is this call marriage " or money is place in the centre of marriage

:sick:

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marriage is about love and responsibility ...

i know i am not qualified to talk here ... but what the heck ...

connection will drop carriage after a few years in the marriage.

it is therefore normal for the married couples to try for kids.

that way, the attention is now focussed on kids rather than couple.

even if there is a bad argument, the couple stayed on course because now they are responsible for the kids' well being.

hence, treasure the mother as not many women out there is willing to bear you a child unless they love you enough ...

why?

BECAUSE I KNOW ...

:P

lizard

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Jaslyn Newbie

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after marriage,one person's life become 2.when have kids.You have no more life as your life is equal to your husband/wife and kids.Alot of compromise + alot of responsibility = to alot of stress and on the same time,alot of happiness which you cant have when you are single.

If you appreciate the happiness and willing to compromise,the marriage would be fairy tale,if not,it would ended up sour.Thats what my experience tells me.

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